I need to hear the tone in your voice when you tell me to go away. Will the notes increase in volume and pitch with a rush of emotion, or will it bottom out as if I should already know you want me to go away and telling me is just an afterthought, a low rumble of a post script.
In the words of Clark Gable as Rhett Butler in that grand old Southern classic: frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn.
I don’t care whether you’re enraged or couldn’t give a flying fuck.
But I need to hear it.
I need to hear something.
I wish I could record your voice saying every possible sound in this English language and then some nonsense words for when I’m feeling silly.
I’d hook you up to a computer and have a bot that would respond to my compliments in questions with over 300 canned-phrases in exactly your tone of voice but not quite. The syllables would fit together awkwardly and amusingly and it probably wouldn’t be enough, but it would tide me over for awhile, like reaching elbow-deep in the cookie jar and finding only oatmeal raisin or ginger snaps. Basically a let-down, but fuck, at least it’s got sugar in it right?
Right?
Oh, to be a leading man.
I’ve come to the realization that I will never be a leading lady.
Too tall.
Too fat.
Voice too low.
To never be an ingénue is not the worst fate in the world, I have decided.
But if I was Gable, I would know what to do. I would handle you with mild, distanced disdain.
Calm, cool, collected.
Cliché.
But if you clapped your hands three times and spun around counterclockwise and cast your eyes my way at exactly 3:39 in the afternoon on an alternate Tuesday you would see the passion smoldering behind my perfect dark eyes.
If you’re lucky.
You would be Vivienne Leigh, railing against me, cursing my lack of emotion, beating your fists against my barrel chest (ha!) and crying bitter, pretty tears into my frustratingly comforting arms.
You’d be such a spunky heroine: now you could be an ingénue if you really wanted, I have no doubt.
But then you wouldn’t need me.
Not that you do now, I suppose.
You’re wildly independent.
I envy you that.
I admire it.
I suppose that’s why I prefer to imagine you as characters from black and white movies—even the plucky ones needed someone to look after them.
You could be the Leigh to my Brando in A Streetcar Named Desire—except in our version I leave Stella because my voice is raw and sore from sounding her name into the night and I’ve had enough of her ripping my wife-beaters in fits of passion. We run away together. You tame my brutish ways and I save you from yourself.
Again, you don’t need saving. I know this. It’s frustrating.
I want to be there for you, but I don’t know where there is.
I guess in the end I would settle to be the Tracy to your Hepburn.
Me, the gentle giant, blustering about trying to tell you what to do
how it’s all for your own good—
and I know better—
and it’s because I care about you
and I don’t want you hurt—
And each time you, the strikingly beautiful yet capable brunette, cut me off with a sarcastic diatribe and pat me on the head.
I’ll smile sheepishly, awkwardly loveable. You’ll get all the one-liners.
Doesn’t that sound appealing?